ur intent is to raise the consciousness of our mentally, physically and spiritually abused sistahs and in the process uplift our brothas. It is necessary to raise the consciousness level and reverse the process of self-destructive behavior that occurs, daily in our communities. Many suggest we are being judgmental. Some say we are too harsh in our critique of our beautiful sistahs. More
Do you think Adam harbored resentment toward Eve after being driven from the Garden? We don’t think so. Could abusive men and acceptance of this abuse by so many sistahs possibly be due to the Willie Lynch theory, which was reportedly written in the 1700’s? Part of this theory simply states that hatred toward fellow blacks will continue for hundreds of years if whites follow his suggestions. His suggestions were to divide and create chaos in their psyche. Indications and possible manifestations of the working theory are included in this writing, and evident in the community. The theory may be contrived, however; the message is real. The hostility that exists between us didn’t magically occur overnight. We must recognize that something is seriously wrong and that change is required immediately. An immediate solution is necessary and we must be willing and prepared to search for one! We must search together sistah and brotha, but until the two can search as one, we will talk to you sistahs.
It is incumbent upon each of us involved in a wrongful, non-productive and harmful relationship, to bring about a change now! Sistahs, your lives and our future depend upon the change. If the positive attributes of love are not in a relationship, it is not true love. When it comes to walking in obedience to the word of God, Sistah finds she is naked, ashamed and without true love. The attributes of love are ordained by God. Many times God is not in her relationship/marriage. Her relationship/marriage is controlled by her man or should I say her male partner and not by God. She agrees that what she hears is true. Sistah makes her mouth talk the talk, but finds it hard to walk the walk. She has too much on her plate. Poor thing, she must work to provide for herself and her baby. Then she must prepare the food, clean the house, clean the baby and herself, and prepare for the next day. She must do this daily, by herself in most cases, while looking, or at least hoping for true love. This may occur, even if the male is in the house. He will offer no help but will be the first to eat once the meal is prepared. In many cases he won’t help with the preparation of the meal; he won’t even help to bring in the groceries. Forget about helping with the baby. ‘That’s your job!’ Even if this behavior is tolerated it still takes a pretty sorry guy to not contribute in any way. I mean, he won’t even pour her a glass of water, ‘what’s wrong with you, your arms broke?’
When one walks in obedience to God, true love can exist, without distrust, abuse and all other complications that can destroy a relationship/marriage. In most cases, however, the word of God has been forgotten and the word of man has been substituted, resulting in chaos.