Glen Kato

Coming out soon is an exciting workbook and system entitled, "Reboot Your Marriage: Go from BLAH to BLISS in 30 Days!"
If you would rate your marriage a 4 to 6 on a scale of 1 to 10, then you are in the BLAH Zone. This concise, simple to apply, step-by-step book will take you where you are as a couple, jump start it towards BLISS and will help you achieve 'dream marriage' status! You just need to be 'all in' and willing to maximize the four week system to your advantage. After all, you didn't get married to live unhappily ever after, right? You will learn how to really communicate, really resolve conflicts, and really love deeply. You will also learn the Top 3 Marriage Essentials and Top 3 Marriage Killers.

Last summer, a few days after the big news that Homer and Marge Simpson were getting a divorce after 26 years of marriage, a reporter from the Huffington Post called to interview me. You see, he saw my Five Ways to Jazz Up Your Marriage (2014) press release and wanted to know what advice I would give them. I mentioned a few things, but I told him that the divorce rate of couples married for 20+ years has doubled in the past 15 years, and divorces were actually on the rise within that demographic. There were several reasons why, but the main trend seemed to be that marriages in their post-honeymoon stage start drifting apart rather than drawing closer during years 5-15, even as early as year 3 and as late as year 20. That is why I decided to address this social phenomenon and fight to encourage, educate, and empower couples towards their dream marriage to reverse this terrible trend.

I believe that at the root of this epidemic is the reversal of priorities and focus of the couple. When a couple is dating, engaged, and newly married, their priority and focus is each other. So much time and emotional energy is used by spending time together to develop their relationship. But once the honeymoon stage lapses, the focus and priorities gradually switch from each other to the accumulation of things, developing careers, and raising children. So now, everything and everyone else becomes more important than the spouse. The mindset (or deception) is that all of these endeavors are for the benefit of the family. Now, if the couple continues to invest in their marriage while developing their future, that would be great, but more often than not, there is an extended period of time when the spouse and their marriage relationship gets all of the leftovers and eventually starves to death... literally! By the time children start leaving the nest, the couple has drifted apart and "fallen out of love." This is when we marriage professionals get the last resort calls to help save their marriage. By this time, however, couples are so hurt and angry, that short of a miracle, they will become another sad statistic.

Reboot Your Marriage: Go from BLAH to BLISS in 30 Days! is committed to provide hope and help for couples in the 3-20 year range to re-energize and realign their marriage in order to go from BLAH to BLISS and then help them NOT go from BLISS to BLAH again!