Where did you grow up, and how did this influence your writing?
I grew up in Seattle, Washington in 1945. This was during a time when abuse was NEVER talked about and considered a family problem. My family refused to acknowledge the abuse, allowing it to continue. My mother turned a blind eye to the problem and I was left to raise myself. Realizing I was a child raising a child continues to amaze me. The fact that I survived to write a book about it, surprises me even more.
When did you first start writing?
Two weeks after my mother's death in May of 2004. She wanted me to write my story but the terrible relationship we had prevented me from agreeing to her request. I told her I could never write a book about my childhood because I would have to portray her as the terrible mother that she was. She laughed and said, "I was a terrible mother, so get over it." I eventually agreed to write the book, but only after she passed away. She passed away the day I agreed to write the book.
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