Stand Up, Doormat: A Relationship Survival Guide For The Nice Guy
Tired of being taken advantage of for being too nice? You don't have to turn into a jerk, but you will have to change. It took me many years and tons of mistakes to figure out what I was doing wrong. Call "Stand Up, Doormat" an instruction manual for Nice Guys or whatever, just don't make the same stupid mistakes that I did. Please. More
Tired of being taken advantage of for being too nice?
You don't have to turn into a jerk, but you will have to change. It took me many years and tons of mistakes to figure out what I was doing wrong. Call "Stand Up, Doormat" an instruction manual for Nice Guys or whatever, just don't make the same stupid mistakes that I did. Please.
In this book you'll learn:
1. How to recognize when you're about to be hosed.
2. To avoid patterns that leave you depleted & defeated.
3. How to have a drama-free, awesome relationship for once and for all.
Awesome Chicks want a "bad boy" about as badly as they want their next car to be a 1988 Corolla. Hot chicks wanting to date a jerk is a total myth. Every woman wants to date a nice guy. But no woman wants a doormat. Huge difference. Doormats equal no respect, and get walked all over.
CAST OF MY (FICTITIOUS) EX GIRLFRIENDS:
THE HOT MESS
THE ROLLER COASTER
THE MOVING TARGET
THE QUEEN BABY
After I finished writing this Nice Guy Relationship Survival Guide, a thought occurred to me. Most guys do not like to read. Being a guy myself, I know the difficulty in getting myself to read anything besides a restaurant menu. Even then I prefer numbered pictures. There are so many things I'd rather be doing, watching, taking apart, I mean fixing... instead of reading. Even reading this description while I type it is a bit challenging.
Then it hit me. I'll just include a perfectly cooked steak with each ebook purchase. Guys love a quality cut of meat. Download-a-steak links, with medium rare, medium, and medium well options. (A noodle quiche link for my vegetarian buyers). But this ebook download format is throwing a major wrench in my game. No matter how fast the download speed, I can't keep the steak hot. And nobody will be encouraged to buy this book if it comes with a cold T-Bone. Surprisingly, the noodle quiche downloads perfectly every time.
Tasty gimmicks aside... here's the deal. I spent 1000 days in relationship hell with women, before I finally found my spine. Like so many of us Nice Guys out there, I thought the answer was trying to make "them" happy. Being "nice," by sacrificing my needs for theirs. Well, after an extended stay in Motel Inferno, I can assure you... that isn't the answer. We find the answer the moment we shift our focus off of "them," and focus i-n-w-a-r-d, taking responsibility for our choices, lives and relationships.
"Stand Up, Doormat" is divided into three sections:
1. Personal Growth & Spirituality
2. Understanding Women
3. Learning What Women Really Want (And Really REALLY Don't Want).
The chapters are also arranged like steps, in the same order I found most beneficial in my own journey of evolution from being a wimp with women, growing a set and ending my suffering, to finally getting out of relationship hell for good. Read these pages, and the Awesome Chicks will come.
TABLE OF CONTENTS:
Chapter 1 It's All Our Fault (Not Hers)
Chapter 2 Our Self-Worth And A Dollar Fifty Will Buy Us A Cup Of Coffee
Chapter 3 Look, In The Sky- A Bird, A Plane, A Giant Burrito... No, It's Just Our EGO!
Chapter 4 Women Are Mirrors
Chapter 5 Excuse Me, Princess, May I Give You A Hand Coming Down From Your Pedestal?
Chapter 6 "Ex" Baggage, Emotional Women, Trust Issues And Lying... How Exciting!
Chapter 7 Non-Attachment From Women: Your Jet Pack Out Of Hell
Chapter 8 How To Take Your Balls Back
Chapter 9 Anger Issues, Manipulation, And The Golden Rules Of Arguing
Chapter 10 What Women Really Want, And Really Really DON'T Want