I believe that women are emotional and loving rather than just sex-mad animals. As such, the kind of erotica that we enjoy, perhaps crave, are basically gentle and affectionate rather than simply raunchy, even debauched.
My stories reflect this. Fundamental nicenessand a degree of refinement in use of language is what I seek to achieve.
As an author I refuse to be crude or use crude language, we deserve better than that!
And I am sure that my stories are the more erotic for it!