As an author I enjoy writing erotica because it allows the dark side to talk in a safe forum. As an individual I never allow that side of me to show. Society tends to frown on that sort of thing. I enjoy being creative, spicy foods and people watching. I have always been a bit quiet and it worked against me most of my life. So I worked hard at learning how to blend in. I think it is all that effort to become like everyone else that has led me to finding this outlet. All that energy has to go somewhere. I just put it in writing. I think the most important thing in life is being in love. The older I get the more I believe we have been looking at love all the wrong way. It seems to me that it is the most misunderstood topic in our society. We think the word 'love' and the idea of being exclusive as synonymous. I am not encouraging polyamory. But I do believe that respecting one another as individuals, with individual free wills that will probably be a lot different than our own, no matter how alike we think we are...is a really great step in the right direction. I think family is super important and our children are our greatest treasure and asset. It tears me up to see them torn in a broken family, be it through divorce or any other means. They are our only hope for a better future. I think we need to sacrifice more of our own personal comfort on their behalf. I hope you enjoy reading what I write. It is all for the sake of entertainment. If you learn something then that was a plus too. Please enjoy.