The Art of Intimacy and the Hidden Challenge of Shame

Published by Vernon C. Kelly, Jr. M.D. at Smashwords

Copyright 2012 Vernon C. Kelly, Jr. M.D.

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"The Wild Rose" from ENTRIES: POEMS by Wendell Berry, copyright © 1994 by Wendell Berry. Used by permission of Pantheon Books, a division of Random House, Inc.

Excerpted passages from "Shame and Pride: Affect, Sex, and the Birth of the Self" by Donald L. Nathanson, by kind permission of the author and W. W. Norton.

Excerpt from "Time Enough for Love", by Robert A. Heinlein by permission from Penguin Group.

"These Ain’t Tynan’s Blues" by Danny Schmidt. Copyright © 2001 Live Once Records. All rights reserved. Used by permission.

New Yorker cartoons by William Haefeli and Paul Noth courtesy Condé Nast.

Photograph Il Bacio (“The Kiss”) ©1947 by Furman Baldwin.

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