When you get married, you don’t live entirely for yourself. Any step you take and any decision you make has to be made on the basis of a mutual understanding. Because everything you do affects your spouse. You live together; you’re creating a home and a family. There is no room for selfishness. You choose to live in harmony and accept each other for their flaws, and respect what they want to do.
You are about to learn some of the most critical information needed to establish and maintain good communication in your relationship from the start. Breakdowns in and ineffective communication delivery can easily take your relationship down wrong paths that lead to an eventual split.