Interview with Lori Jenessa Nelson

Published 2015-03-22.
What is the greatest joy of writing for you?
"I do not talk about my feelings. That's what poetry is for." Poetry for me is sharing my private feelings in a public setting. My well-polished and severely edited private feelings. :)
What are you working on next?
I'm working on a couple of different things, one of them being another poetry collection entitled, As I Write to You. It's about my current relationship. It's a lot edgier than Dear Lover, and I believe, shows growth in my maturity.
Who are your favorite authors?
Maya Angelou, Simon Armitage, J.K. Rowling, J.D. Robb, Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde, Edgar Allen Poe
What inspires you to get out of bed each day?
Food mostly. Most everything else I can do in bed: drawing, painting, knitting, typing, I can do in bed. But I have to leave the bed to go get food.

Going to the ceramics studio, also. I love doing wheel work. So that gets me out of bed. I also like hanging out at parks when it's warm outside and writing or sketching or napping in the sun.
How do you approach cover design?
I start with the poetry. I write the poetry, edit it, obsess over it, scribble it down in the middle of the night, and then a title will eventually come to mind for a group of poems. I will to some doodles that complement the title, lots and lots of doodles, before asking an artist to improve upon my doodles.
What are your five favorite books, and why?
That's difficult. I love to read. I'd say Order of the Phoenix from the Harry Potter series. I really loved A Little Princess. A Walk to Remember was fabulous. My Lady Mistress. The Norton Anthology of African-American Poetry and Literature. I chose the first four because they are love stories. The 5th Harry Potter is about the love Harry has for his godfather. A Little Princess--the love for her father. My Lady Mistress is a romance novel of desperately, horribly wonderful romantic love, and the Norton Anthology has some of the most moving pieces I've ever read about black culture and history. It was a very informative and painful read. Reading about black history is painful to me because of all of the horrors that others had to endure.
What do you read for pleasure?
Romance novels, poetry, murder mysteries.
What is your e-reading device of choice?
I am a faithful Kindle girl. I love my Kindle.
Describe your desk
I actually don't have a "desk" right now. I have a rocking chair with art and half-finished sweaters piled on it, a bookshelf with stacks of fabric, a loveseat with yarn and a keyboard, but no desk.
When did you first start writing?
I started writing when I was in third grade. I did journal writing back then and then, short stories and bits of poetry. Now, I more or less, exclusively write poetry, though I have written a couple of short stories and plays for courses in college.
What's the story behind your latest book?
Love. Love is the story. Specifically, heartbreak. The poetry collection started off as a lot of poems about relationships that went sour very quickly. Not in a "things just fell apart" kind of sour. The kind of sour that people watch Lifetime movies about. Men who visit you everyday and spend hours talking to you and then just vanish. Men who manipulate you with outrageous rants and arguments and harsh words, followed by tears and declarations of "I love you but, you're this, and you're that, and I want you to be different." And also, accusations. I learned that accusations are a form of manipulation, and I write about that in the book, too.
When you're not writing, how do you spend your time?
I like to knit and crochet. I run an Etsy craft store with one of my friends, who is also a poet. I also play piano and love to read. Sometimes, I'll go for long walks at night (if it's warm enough), or go draw in the park or at a cafe.
How do you discover the ebooks you read?
A lot of the time, they are things that have been recommended to me based on other things I've read (through Amazon or Goodreads). Sometimes though, I'll just look through a genre I feel up to reading with a certain subject matter, for example, "romance" and "pirates", then scroll through and browse until something looks interesting.
What is your writing process?
I like to do a variety of things. Sometimes, inspiration will just strike me, and I'll write a lot for an hour, or a day, or a week. Nothing is set in stone for me. Sometimes, I do freewrites and set a timer for 10 or 15 minutes, and write until the timer goes off. There are also days where I'm up to trying a formal poem and will set about that by writing in the form first, (ABAB CDCD, or whichever form and rhyme scheme) and fiddle with that.
Where did you grow up, and how did this influence your writing?
I'm from Memphis, Tennessee. The strongest influence growing up there had on me is that I incessantly remind myself to be open-minded. There are so many closed-minded and hyper-conservative people back home, and I found that constricting. I would never want my writing to be able to be shoved into one small box. I want all different types of people to be able to relate to what I write and to find strength or inspiration in my writings.
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Books by This Author

A Rose By Some Other Name
Price: Free! Words: 3,560. Language: English. Published: June 19, 2015 . Categories: Fiction » Erotica » Historical / Regency, Fiction » Erotica » Romance
What is it like to be in love? Earnest thought he knew until his fiery, red head of a wife starts seeing another man...named Earnest. Will the treachery ever end with Gwendolyn? What is so important about being Earnest if she cannot love the man she promised to love forever? This is the first installment in The Wilted Rose Series. Earnest and Gwendolyn are not finished just yet.
Dear Lover,
Price: $3.99 USD. Words: 8,920. Language: English. Published: February 20, 2015 . Categories: Poetry » Female authors
The collection is a story of several different relationships and organized into the stages of a relationship; that initial attraction, the dancing around each other, the honey moon stage, the souring, the fighting, the breaking up, and the recovering. It is a work that is deeply personal, and reaches for the hearts of anyone who has ever fallen in love.