Collections of stories, factual articles, helpful (some less than helpful, but still humorous) suggestions relating to Rose's struggle to deal with Hypoactive Sexual Desire Syndrome (HSDS) / Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD). From her self-discovery of actually missing something ("Who knew? Some people have intercourse more than once a year!") to realization of the impact of HSDD upon her husband, who also struggled to delve into the mystery of what had happened to his blushing, flushing, sex-starved bride-to-be. Compounded by daily challenges facing those unable to recognize "sexy" resulting in breaches of normal social etiquette and "Too Much Information"(TMI)("Holy cow! Who knew you can't talk about marked clitoral engorgement in the grocery checkout line?"). Yet more complications being multiply-orgasmic (but not wanting any), to braless existence, to self-imposed 'Mommy Porn' writing self-treatment, to Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), to premature menopause, to infidelity, and beyond. Explore the often humorous, but always poignant world of reality & fantasy as seen by a middle-aged, messed-up kind of gal, not yet willing to give up on getting her mojo back.